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Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage

Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage

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Author: Alice Munro
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Avg. Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars 31 reviews
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Media: Hardcover
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 336
Dimensions (in): 9 x 6 x 1

ASIN: B0000VV2EC

Publication Date: August 31, 2001
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Editorial Reviews:

Amazon.com Review
Readers know what they are going to get when they pick up an unfamiliar Alice Munro collection, and yet almost every page carries a bounty of unexpected action, feeling, language, and detail. Her stories are always unique, blazing an invigorating originality out of her seemingly commonplace subjects. Each collection develops her oeuvre in increments, subtly expanding her range.

Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage is, of course, no exception. It is a fairly conservative collection of nine stories, none of which move far beyond Munro's favored settings: the tiny towns and burgeoning cities of southern Ontario and British Columbia. There are glimpses of youth here--in the title story, an epistolary prank by two teenage girls leads to a one-sided cross country elopement and, seemingly, a happy marriage, and in "Nettles," disrupted childhood affection fleetingly returns through a chance meeting--but most of these pieces are stories of aging women and men, confronting the twin travails of death and late love. As is always the case with Munro, their plots are too elegantly elaborate to summarize, and their unsentimental power is a given; baroque praise would be futile. Read these stories--it is the only way to really understand the miracles that Munro so regularly performs. --Jack Illingworth

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In these stories whose lives come into focus through single events or sudden memories which bring the past bubbling to the surface. The past, as her characters discover, is made up not only of what is remembered, but also what isn't. The past is there, just out of the picture, but if memories haven't been savoured, recalled in the mind and boxed away, it's as if they have never been until a moment when the pieces of the jigsaw re-form suddenly, sometimes pleasurably but more often painfully. Women look back at their young selves, at first marriages made when they were naive and trusting, at husbands and their difficult, demanding little ways. There is in this new collection an underlying heartbreak, a sense of regret in her characters for what might have been, for a fork in the road not taken, a memory suppressed in an act of prudent emotional housekeeping. But at the same time there is hope, there are second changes her are people who reinvent themselves, seize life by the throat, who have moved on and can dare to conjure up the hidden memories, daring to go beyond what is remembered.


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5 out of 5 stars Deja Lu?   April 16, 2008
Munro is a good writer, one of the best short story writers along with William Trevor, and this is an excellent set of stories, except that, once you've read 10-12 of Munro's stories and start reading a new one, you have this feeling of having already read it, or one very similar.


5 out of 5 stars Another Great Collection from Munro   June 20, 2007
 1 out of 1 found this review helpful

The collection takes its title from the opening story, a fifteen thousand-word piece recounting a strange, small-town romance. "Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage" is the name of a game played by the teenaged protagonist, Edith (though perhaps other characters could be identified as protagonists, something that can be said for many of Munro's stories) and her friend, Sabetha.

The game goes like this: one of the girls writes down a boy's name then strikes out all the letters in the name that match the letters in her name. The remaining letters are counted. That number is used to tick off fingers, saying, Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage, until, as Munro writes, "you got the verdict on what could happen between you and that boy." It is the same sort of he loves me, he loves me not game played with daisies or black-eyed Susans, just a bit more complicated, which is how many of Munro's stories function--she takes a seemingly familiar story and draws it out to an entirely unique place.

In the case of the title story, one of the characters, Sabetha, who lives with her widowed grandfather, begins fabricating love letters with her friend Edith. The love letters are between Sabetha's estranged father who is living in a down and out logging town, and the woman who was hired by Sabetha's widowed grandfather to cook and clean and care for Sabetha. Typically in this sort of scheme, the forgery is discovered or the lie somehow becomes a thing that entangles characters. But in this story, the fabricators are never discovered. The fact of the lie is incidental. The letters still provoke change and lead to the sort of uncommon love that is at the core of all the stories in this collection.

It would be easy to dwell on this single story, it reads more like a novel or novella than a short story. We do not even meet Sabetha and Edith or discover their forgeries until we have read well over seven thousand words. Instead we discover the world of this small, frontier town and Johanna, the housekeeper. We are introduced to characters that are drawn fully in a handful of pages and then disappear. We find ourselves thoroughly involved in the place and lives of these characters before the plot of the story is fully revealed.

That said, the stories never move far from the center that is precisely laid out in the opening pages. It is an interesting thing that Munro does in her stories. Unlike John Cheever or Raymond Carver who enter into a story quickly and then work to get out, who offer a very intricate glimpse into the lives their characters, Munro tends to dwell, sometimes offering through one long gaze through a small window a representative view of the entire life of her character.

There are no heroes in "Hateship, Friendship, Courtship, Loveship, Marriage." Nor is there evil. Certain characters will profess a belief in God, but that sort of Christian judgment is absent from even the characters themselves. They lead common lives. If they are working class, then they are shop owners and farmers and loggers, or they are drunkards and common failures. If they are middle or upper class, they are doctors and lawyers with largely uneventful lives. But uneventful or ordinary does not mean uninteresting. Each character carries within them some event or feeling that bears down upon their life--a daughter who has run away, an unwed pregnancy ended in secret adoption, a marriage absent of love, a failed marriage, adultery, death of a spouse--and these things do not force the characters into extraordinary action, but rather ordinary action.
The loveless marriage persists, the adulterer returns to her husband, the wounds from the failed marriage heal and scar and, "after their short, happy marriage they were sent to separate cemeteries to lie beside their first, more troublesome partners." There are no spectacular events in this collection, only common events made interesting by Munro's extraordinary talent.

I find something meaningful in the stories of people bound by life, something somehow more meaningful than our contemporary (modern) boundlessness. And it is this meaning that Munro pulls out in the lives of her characters. This is not a collection for readers of self-help or adventure, but rather this is a collection for people interested in understanding a less modern portrayal of living, the sort of living that is seldom seen on any sort of screen, lives free of sentimentality, stories void of absolutes--lives in the end as common as our own.



4 out of 5 stars Obligatory - but Good - Book Club Read   March 31, 2007
 2 out of 2 found this review helpful

I never would have bought this book if not for my book club. But I am glad I did. Though I am not a big fan of short stories, and some were better than others, I enjoyed this book. Munro has a lovely way of writing, with eloquent and thought-provoking descriptors. Sometimes the endings came out of nowhere (and not in a good way) but it was overall a good read.


5 out of 5 stars More Than Short   December 22, 2006
In this collection of short stories Alice Munro offers perfect slices of Canadian life, and while some may find the characters and their situations depressing, I find Munro's world inspirational in its universality. She shows that people are people, and that is what is on display in these works.

The stories explore the "rustic," without being "twangy," and Munro has captured the essence of the contemporary common Canadian woman.

Highly recommended...




5 out of 5 stars Yes, All of Those Things   October 18, 2006
 4 out of 6 found this review helpful

A new word is needed for what Alice Munro writes in lieu of novels. Certainly each story in her several collections should stand alone (and some stand straighter than others), but each ensemble of stories resonating with each other amounts to more than the sum of the parts. Think of a big sprawling novel with artfully interwoven subplots; then take each subplot and distill it into a short/long story. Let the reader remember each story as she/he reads the others. In fact, in Munro's case, let the reader remember very similar stories written a few years or decades ago by a younger (and thus different) Munro. Watch the understanding grow. Mind you, understanding of folly is a form of wisdom, too. Alice Munro has "understood" her material, primarily her own locality in place and time, better than almost any writer of her lifetime.
This is not my favorite of the 10 storybooks Munro has published, but it's very very good, especially "The Bear Came Over the Mountain". If Munro is honored with the Nobel Prize (there have been hints), I'll applaud the decision.


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