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Violent Partners: A Breakthrough Plan for Ending the Cycle of Abuse | 
enlarge | Author: Linda Mills Publisher: Basic Books Category: Book
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Avg. Customer Rating: 3 reviews Sales Rank: 287522
Media: Hardcover Edition: 1 Number Of Items: 1 Pages: 288 Shipping Weight (lbs): 1.3 Dimensions (in): 9.3 x 6.1 x 1.3
ISBN: 0465045774 Dewey Decimal Number: 362.82920973 EAN: 9780465045778 ASIN: 0465045774
Publication Date: June 2, 2008 Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days
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A radical new take on the crisis of intimate abuse, Violent Partners argues that as a culture we misunderstand the root causes and basic effects of abuse, and until that changes there is no hope of fixing the problem. Dr. Linda Mills challenges assumptions, tears down myths, and offer solutions, all the while telling riveting stories of couples who have conquered violence in their relationships. In Violent Partners, she describes several programs that hold promise for addressing intimate abuse, including two nationally known and groundbreaking treatment programs-Peacemaking Circles and Healing Circles. Controversial, provocative, and accessible, Violent Partners is unlike any other book on abuse and relationships, and highlights in great detail the complexities of violence through the stories of men and women who have acknowledged their abuse and sought to do something about it. This is essential reading for anyone seeking to understand violence in their own relationship, friends and family members of victims and abusers, and legal and mental health practitioners looking for a new and valuable approach to treating couples in crisis.
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Any general-interest or health library needs this August 17, 2008 1 out of 1 found this review helpful
VIOLENT PARTNERS: A BREAKTHROUGH PLAN FOR ENDING THE CYCLE OF ABUSE is a different kind of survey of abuse: it shows how both partners often participate in the dynamics of abuse, and provides an 'out' for those who want to preserve relationships without that violence. Also included are tips for the men assaulted by women each year, and an overall response that addresses patterns of violent dynamics. Any general-interest or health library needs this.
Diane C. Donovan California Bookwatch
Violent Partners July 14, 2008 6 out of 6 found this review helpful
An excellent book that describes a great need for victims of domestic violence and their offenders. Restorative justice in any form should be considered in the criminal justice system, there is simply too much retribution and not enough compassion.
I have worked with domestic violence victims and offenders for over seven years and it is true that some do not want to separate yet they need a way to create a safe environment so a reconciliation is possible.
Ms. Mills suggestions should be considered by anyone working with domestic violence clients.
A huge step forward for violent relationships July 8, 2008 6 out of 6 found this review helpful
I have been working in the field of domestic abuse for over 15 years. I am impassioned by the work that I do. I agree with Dr. Mills that violence is transmitted through generations. I have always been frustrated by the fact that as soon as my colleagues , therapists that I respect, hear that there is violence in a family, they immediately resort to a . Not wanting to work with the couple together and b. Encouraging the couple to get divorced, when in fact most couples do not want to separate and c. The therapist will allign with the female (victim?)before even investigating the dynamics of what is really going on with this family.
Linda Mills' book Violent Partners brings all of the issues that I have been struggling with to the forefront. I, also, thoroughly appreciated the fact that we heard Dr. Mills' voice in retelling her own personal story. My hope is that through Violent Partners we learn to give every member of a family involved in violence a voice to be heard.
I salute Linda for the courage to come forward to say the things that most of us in the field know to be the truth but are afraid to verbalize. I believe this book gives hope to families that are in violent relationships, and lets them know they are not alone. We understand why they might stay and we can work with them to bring their relationship to a safe place where they can stay together.
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